Differenciated

"KUNG TOTOO ANG DESTINY,
DI TOTOO ANG FREE WILL?"

...made me think!

Lexicon wise these are meanings of the two words.

Destiny : what happens in the future : the things that someone or something will experience in the future
: a power that is believed to control what happens in the future (Merriam)

Free will : the ability to choose how to act
: the ability to make choices that are not controlled by fate or God (Merriam)

Well, well, well! It has a point. But I wanted to deep dive the idea.

I wanted to differentiate the two as I do believe that these terms may have been contradicting but co-exist.

As these terms stands on their very time (situation) and act of the person over a matter.

Let us put it this way. When do you consider "destiny" happens? or the "free will" will be used?

The context. Destiny pertains to time wherein a situation will happen without any inference from the person alone. Whereforth, free will would be a decision of a person over a matter at hand or upon taking action to some situation.

Free will would take into the scene as a spice when destiny is taking its stage.

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Star(s)

I have chosen to love the night time. As it is the only time I can watch the moon and the stars. The night makes me immense myself with the animosity of the lovely sky that looks like a blanket that cuddles the moon as it plays with the twinkling stars. Like the moon, I pay good attention to the stars as I name one for myself... but one should be careful as stars are cunning they would shine bright for you once but when you blink they'd dissappear. As those stars in the sky were all named. I know somewhere I have my own...my star... who by night time is so eager to own me furthermore by daytime silently watches over me.

I've never been much into the stars' beauty from the outside I am more with how they are accompanying the moon not to go solo at night. How they shine to give light and guide to the travelers and knowledge and wisdom to the astronomers. On how they can give hope to someone on any undetermined spot on earth by just simply looking at them from afar or by wishing over one crashing as it will be caught by eyes.

Stars are lovely not just pretty. They are lovely. They always will be.

At one point,  I realised that I should stop chasing my star. I must be contented gazing at it and allow it to make its own way to amaze me: by greeting me with its infinite beauty from the inside. Anyway, it is called "my star" because it belongs to me. It belongs to me... so I I'll choose to wait to have its fall on me. At this time, I'd spend moment bettering myself so that I'd be ready to catch it with both hands. Embrace it with all my might and to unite with it as we condensed together to the infinity which only the two of us will share. 



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Lenten Reflection '16

Transcendence, a term I only encountered in the academe via psychology and philosophy. I thought no one would dare to write about it.

But it seems to be quite clear in this white published sheet.

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Story lines: To make the long story short.

#account1: He.She. Cross path. Eyes met. Started forever.

#account2: Her paper fell. He catched it. He asked for her name. They enjoyed hanging around.

#account3: She lost her glasses. He found glasses on a table. She went back to the table. It all started there.

#account4: He used the window as mirror .She rolled the window down. They laugh at each other.

#account5: She broke a string. He came to fix it. They made wonderful music.

#account6: She entered the door,  he took her hand. They danced all night.

#account7: Said sorry. FORGIVEN. Life began.

#account8: He said his good morning, she replied good morning. They created good noons.Then shared all goodnights.

#account9: He opened the door. She smiled at him. They started chatting.

#account10: He lied. She cried. They broke up

#account11: She made a confession. His heart was broken. They ended being alone.

#account12: He cares. She cares. They took good care of each other.

#account13: He said he's a she. She laugh. Turn around and cry.

#account14: At the  coffee shop. A name was called out. They both show up. They share the same name.

#account15: She started ranting. He remained calm. They the shared the night.

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Lab-dab,lab-dab!--listen to it...

Iyan ang himig at indak ng pusong may pag-asa!🎤💃💞

Kadalasan...

Kapag naisip ng isang sawing puso ang nakalipas niya, maaaring mahinawa niyang kabiguan lang at sakit ang hatid ng pagmamahal o pagsuyong natigil. Ngunit mapagtatanto mo ring kapag mayroon nang panibagong pagsuyo at ito'y nananatili, ang nagdaan ay tila aral na magtuturo sayo na may panahon ang lahat at di lang bugso ng damdamin ang nag-aalab... kungdi ang pagtingin ninyo sa hinaharap --di lamang sa malapot na pagtitig sa mata ng isa't isa.

Ang "pagmamahal" o "pagsuyo" sa isang tao (technically speaking,  not one of your relatives huh) ay isang sugal. Naniniwala akong bahagi nito ay pagtitika mo sa isang banda. Pagsugal, na hindi mahalaga kung sinuman ang magwawagi o magiging sawi dahil ang mahalaga alam mo kung kailan kakapit at kailan ka bibitiw. Sa kabilang banda, kung nagmamahal ka pipiliin mo ang bagay na magpapaligaya sa kanya kahit pa di ka bahagi non eh magpapaubaya ka. Lahat ng bagay ay nagaganap ng may mahusay na kadahilanan. Di nga lang natin mababanaagan agad-agad.

Lalo pa kung...

Ang taong minamahal mo ay di na tulad ang nararamdaman gaya ng sa iyo. Napanaw na ang maalab niyang pag-ibig. Suriin mo ang mga kaganapan sa inyo. Pag-usapan ninyo. Sumugal ka kung maaari pang balikan ang lahat para maalala nyang nangako kayong para sa isa't isa o hahayaan mo siyang hanapin ang sarili niya sa malawak na mundo (aaay,bahala siyang maligaw pineste. Haha) ang mahalaga nagkaroon kayo ng pagkakataong maunawaan ang kasalukuyang kalagayan ng inyong relasyon. [pakiusap naman kung mag-asawa na kayo pag-usapan niyong masusi at isaalang-alang ang maraming bagay, wag kayong ano dyan!]

Gayunpaman,

Sa pusong nabigo na ng minsan at nang minsan pa (wag nang pangangatluhan pa... hanggang 2nd Chance lang yung movie wag kayong ano!) wag matatakot sumubok magmahal muli. Dahil hindi mo malalaman, mararanasan, at mararamdaman kung di mo susubukan. Hindi mo maipadarama yung pagmamahal mo sa isang tao kung di ka susubok. Bahagi ng umibig ang masaktan kasi tao ka, di ka naman bato... wag lang paulit-ulit dahil walang gamot sa tanga ha. Hayaan mo na ang nakalipas, limutin mo na at matuto ka.

Sa kabilang banda...

Ang pag-ibig, pagmamahal, at pagsuyo ay di naman talaga nakakasakit. (Read on Corinthians ha, it has to be God centered...nosebleed na ko managalog pero kaya pa tiwala lang) kahit pa minsan bahagi lang nito ang pagtatasa o pagsukat sa tibay ninyo.-- na ang layunin ay lumago at hindi ang sirain kayo.

Kasi naman...

Ang pagmamahal di pinagpipilitan (wag pasukin ang komplikado, wag kang manggulo) tumiming ka naman uy! Dalwa lang!-- yung papangatlo na magba-bind si God yun. Wag kang feeler ha! antay ka ng sayo. Dahil ang pag-ibig di hinahanap kusang dumarating yan. Wag kang mag-alala yung laan para sa iyo hahawakan ng mabuti yung kamay mo nang di ka na malayo sa kanya. Yung isasanggalang niya yung sarili para di ka na masaktan pa. Kaya kalma lang ha. Wag nang bagabag.

Ang saganang akin,

Ang pag-ibig parang pagbabasa lang ng libro yan. Kung balik ka nalang ng balik sa isang pahina eh di mo mababasa yung sunod na Chapter na mas maganda pa pala... may anticipation naman kasi... nanamnamin mo yung binabasa mo hindi yung dinadaanan lang ng mata mo. Basta sarap magbasa lalong higit pagdamang-dama (pag-ibig pa rin ba topic ko o pagbabasa na?Haha)

Baka naman...

Minsan masarap ding magmahal ng 'writer'...Sabi nga sa isang nabasa ko, "When you love a person that writes no need for you to marry a Greek god or goddess cos through their writing you can be immortal! " (maisingit lang)

Napagtanto ko ding...

Ang kakayahan nating magmahal ay di naman kayang tibagin ng isang kabiguan o di kaya ay maipagwawagi ng isang haplos... yes it can start with such pero... tatandaan nating panghabambuhay ang pag-ibig patuloy tayo sa pagsuyo. Dito ay matuto tayo, may malalaman, at mag-uusbong. Sa buhay,  bahagi nito ang pagkawala ng ilan at pagdating ng panibago.

Alam ko to (learned by experience)

Pag-iniwan ka, wag kang magmumukmok. Iiyak mo kung kailangan... hahanap ka din ng kausap ha delikado eh. But "time heals all wounds" totoo! Ang buhay ay pasulong di yan paurong. Masakit, siyang tunay, pero kaya naman. Mabuti nga at nagmahal ka... yung sa totoo lang... di ka nagkulang. Kunsensya na niya. Takte! Kung nadapa ka aba'y bangon! Wag kang unfair sa sarili. Love yourself and you'll again be set to love others. Oo, mag-iiwan ng marka yung dati. Pero pakiawa mo na wag mong kurutin ng kurutin yung sugat at baka maging malaking peklat yan ha. Ang pagmamahal ay dapat isang magandang pakiramdam na ibabahagi mo araw-araw hindi alaalang itinatago sa kung saanman.

O basta ha.

Pagmagmahal ka wag kang tipid. Lalo na kung dun sa tamang tao. Kailan mo malalamang tama? -- yung walang sabit, di ka panggulo,  iniisip ang kapakanan mo,  yung nagsasabi ng totoo at hindi lang paggwapo, yung di ka idadaan sa kwento pero may oras na makipag-usap sayo, yung hindi baon niya yung pandate sayo o galing pa sa kupit sa wallet ng nanay niya, hindi yung maganda/gwapo ka lang sa paningin niya dahil may nahihita sayo at di naman yung nasa-saloob mo.. (balak ka pang gawing trophy).  Aral muna kung estudyante ka,  pamilya muna bago iba. You'd know a better person if you see how they value their family... nakakasiguradong gamot ay bago... joke lang! Malamang alamang pahahalagahan din niya yung pamilyang bubuuin kasama ka. You'd know that the person would be worthy to build with and not just simply chill with. Di ka tambayan... tao ka... minamahal at pinapahalagahan.

Aaaay...hala ...babu muna! Antok na ulit si Ako.



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Outside:Looking in.

Wake up: let go and move forward!

When it's time to break it... let it be in a proper manner. It could not be "even" as the song claims but the very least you didn't add up to the pain which both of you have, may have, or will be having.

Too much grip on some thing could never be right or fair enough. It can cause bruises on the one who holds it tight and scars/pains on the other side.

A relationship would always be "us"... if now at this time you are solely thinking about "I" well,  better examine the affair the you are in  right the very moment. Talk about it.

Most people would always cling on to things they no longer associate themselves anymore. This would definitely keep them hanging. The caught-in-the-middle feeling where you don't know if you'd proceed or forever be stocked.

In a relationship, this would be a bad indication. For an instance you'd say, "it's not about him/her,  it's all because of me. Oooops, can you still remember how you'd become partners? Always consider that one is a part of the other in an affair. You can't surely be with together if one of you won't agree with the commitment of being part of each other.

This clearly calls out for people on the brink of deliverance deciding upon leaving someone without closure.

And remember, that once you decided over things never mull over it any more. Thinking about what you have already thought of would surely be a double jeopardy. It's a crime. It can consume you so beware and just be it. No holding back beacuse the more you do, the more you hurt yourself and the "once" special person in your life. Which on the other hand, if you turns out to decide to choose them they could be your lifetime.

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