Ping!

Ping! That would be the sound familiar to anyone. The sound that would wake you even you are sleepy. You are correct! --it is the sound of an alert once you receive a message either via messenger, chat, or email.

What's the reason of mentioning it? Oh well, don't you think that this sound actually moves you to respond immediately or be motivated to look or check the message? As a matter-of -factly it urges you to act onto something.

I have known someone who actually has this effect on me. I should say that I really admire this person. Largely,  affecting me postively. I want you to get familiar of him even just with his story.

He seems to be so vulnerable, young, and free. He takes life lightly even if life actually offers him the reverse... I mean it. He has no perfect  home--it is not about a grandeur house to live in but having no mom to look for the whole family---broken it can be.

No grandeur house would be fine. A shelther would be alright. So let's leave it that way. He doesn't have a mom because of a "choice". He once opened up the thing but I didn't bother him much of going deeper. This caused the family to be less connected...taking life individually but he's different. YES, he helped himself to become individually equipped but for the benefit of the family. He uses his craft to be less of a burden. He has been working for his family which eventually lead him to stop schooling. He said he has to stop but would surely pursue it soon. I know he'd find a way. He took the role of being a provider beneficial to keep his family intact.

Truly no broken home can't be rebuild. In little sacrificial way you can lead a completeness by accepting the role and keeping the goal.

Then, why shouldn't we (with complete family members) give strong bond with our own?

Talking about family, he also created family among his friends. He maintain to cherish and to respect people of any age. He may had been bullied and could have possibly been sidelined most of the time but he managed to hold his horse over talk-of-the-mouth of people around. I know he's really hurt as people would look at him negatively each and every day. Sometimes, even some of his friends does the bullying. Friends can be real cruel that's true so he would just smile and accept being called-out but I know inside he's crying.

Inevitably you have to stand courageously over matters at hand so you won't be dragged down by inferiority. Know that defeat is most of the time self-made. You can cry to release some of the tensions but fight with a joyful heart so they'd know that you love yourself more than they love their own.

Loving should start from us and show people nothing but love as love begets love.

At one point, he once confessed that he has this feeling for a girl. This girl gives her an intense feeling which he says "love". I must agree that he has a feelings for this girl, yes, he definitely like her. This girl is a close friend for years and years. He usually joins activities for her, attends something for her, finds time to see her, and totally thinks of her good.--name it. But this girl just made him feel he's not good enough. She never had a feeling for him. So settled being a good friend though he's in pain.

I have to zip my mouth about this. You can infer.

For all the adversities, he remained so pure.  Despite of the negativities, he remained calm and kept his faith with him. He never ceased to pray to God and share Godly verses whenever he has load.

Truly, this person is not just somebody to me. Cos I am learning through him. I really appreciate how he is taking life his way. He is someone who's worthy of grace.

What I learned from him is that life is like music it can give you different melodies...well surely, you'd soon find a way to sing your heart out to it and blend with it perfectly.

Let me share the bright side...

This man,  is trying to live life completely. He still works for the family through his talent,skills, and perseverance. He currently received a sponsorship to study from where he works.

The one being bullied before gained bunches of brothers and sisters who looks up to him although it is not known much to him. He has been designated task for multitude of people (kids on Sunday Catechism back then) that when he would pass by... they would call up to him with a "hi", all-teeth smile, and high-five. He's somewhat a celebrity.

And now, he is in love with a beautiful -kindhearted lady he met in the church. They had been exchanging sweet nothings continuously even if the girl is away because of studies. [But brother, be sure to take it slow okay? Just be inspired,  be motivated, enjoy the "ding"! Everything in His time.]

By the way, thanks for being an inspiration to write this piece.

Thanks for letting me know that when you dream,  dream wide awake. Life mustn't be fooled around but must be played right and enjoyed well.

Walang daluyong na dapat kang ikahon kung sisikapin mong tumindig at magtiwala sa nasa itaas.

I hope you have learned this "ping!" ;-)

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